Summer Sale Time

Wow, summer is practically here, alhough the weather for the most part is really not obliging! I couldn't help noticing how there are so many sales on, so it got me to thinking that I should reduce my session rates. So I did! I also brought back the one and a half hour session for those who are just looking for relaxation or stress relief. 

So, if you were wanting to see me now's the perfect opportunity...these are the lowest rates I have ever offered. In fact the last time my rates were this low was 2004!

Be careful with words

We often speak too much and we don't really listen. Most times it is best to listen and to not speak. When we listen, we learn. Think about the times you have had an argument with someone. Did you take the time to really listen or did you just barge in there head first with your point of view.......

When one truly listens, then you can determine what is really being said, you might even find that you are saying the same thing, just in a different way. In reality, you could spend hours/days arguing about the same thing and when you think about it that is such a waste of time and energy, but more importantly feelings get hurt and damaged.

So, don't let your emotions and your ego cloud your responses, because you'll probably end up saying things that you never meant to say. And those words can never ever be taken back. 

Letting Go

I am often asked how do you do that..... to let go of stuff that doesn't support you.  Well, it's not easy. In fact, it's quite a challenge. An important thing to remember though is that if you realize that it doesn't support you, that it is just illusion,  then it makes no sense to hold onto it.

But it is a scary concept and so we stay in our comfort zone, do nothing, so we keep suffering.

To face it requires courage, and that is the most difficult thing for us all to do. Why? Because of ego....Remember it is all illusion.......you created it and hence only you can let it go.

Session Length

My minimum session length is 2 hours, so please don't request any shorter length as I do nothing less than 2. For one thing, it means that you don't get to spend as much time with me or I you, but more importantly it really doesn't offer you the opportunity to really experience what I believe Tantra is all about

And yes, the first part of the session is conversation.....but that in itself is really important.......for us to spend quality time together it is important to get to know a little about each another.

So come prepared to talk and to open up. The more you open up yourself to me, the more you will find that we will connect.

Staying in the moment

The most of important aspect of Tantra is staying fully in the moment in all that we do so that we can fully experience it.  Of course, this isn't the easiest thing to do. In fact we often only catch glimpses but even just glimpses can be transformational. And that is all that I can ever hope to do in session is help you to try and catch a glimpse of what living in the moment and experiencing fully that moment is all about. If I have done that with you then you will have experienced Tantra.

One reason why many come to a Tantra session is to experience something different. In order to do this though one must be open to change. However, some clients have not shown up with a completely open mind. Unless one can let go of expectations then you are limiting yourself and me at the same time. 

Allow me to give to you and stay present so that you can receive and experience fully. By surrendering in this manner I will be able to give more. But, if you are wanting me to do something else other than what I'm doing in my time with you then your mind is wandering,  resulting in you not being fully present and not receiving as fully as you could. This will also affect my ability to give to you. And so you'll go away somewhat disappointed.

"Do not seek fame. Do not make plans. Do not be absorbed by activities. Do not think that you know. Be aware of all that is and dwell in the infinite. Wander where there is no path. Be all that heaven gave you, but act as though you have received nothing. Be empty, that is all."  CHUANG TZU